https://www.lindaschlapfer.com/about-linda daily 0.75 2025-06-03 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f2af28e914d6a1c9f401002/1597773126503-3CSZEEQYU7MZ433K1BGQ/G_002511_190129_crop%2B2.jpg About Linda https://www.lindaschlapfer.com/home daily 0.75 2025-06-03 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f2af28e914d6a1c9f401002/9d8ce406-2b73-41ba-9925-410e69d46624/Linda+Cube.png https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f2af28e914d6a1c9f401002/1599591202767-L8EK5TD8VFLG38JV38WJ/7651027824_IMG_2946.JPG Home - Linda Schlapfer is a licensed marriage and family therapist in Greenwich, CT, with over 20 years of experience helping individuals and couples with relationship and sexual issues. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f2af28e914d6a1c9f401002/1599227132075-R3HXOF6871QKQPIBHXYS/renate-vanaga-pI6tx7Cn0vU-unsplash.jpg https://www.lindaschlapfer.com/the-details daily 0.75 2025-04-16 https://www.lindaschlapfer.com/contact daily 0.75 2025-06-03 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f2af28e914d6a1c9f401002/9d8ce406-2b73-41ba-9925-410e69d46624/Linda+Cube.png https://www.lindaschlapfer.com/marriage-family-therapy daily 0.75 2025-04-16 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f2af28e914d6a1c9f401002/1598374744376-RX9P0OQR5ZEYWWWKHLQX/pexels-polina-zimmerman-3958462.jpg https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f2af28e914d6a1c9f401002/1598374599655-7UFANAUU7H91PYMAONP3/jurien-huggins-jLWlA1HQMbE-unsplash.jpg Marriage & Family Therapy - Individual Therapy When you're feeling a little lost or stuck, you may need someone to lend a hand and guide you in exploring the challenges in your life. For 20 years, I have been helping clients manage real problems using solution‑focused strategies. People seek me out for a wide variety of reasons: They may be coping with day‑to‑day struggles; childhood trauma; grappling with depression and/or anxiety; substance abuse; illness; relationship problems; parenting challenges; school difficulties; career changes; grief or loss; and some might simply desire personal growth and greater self‑knowledge. Together, in a compassionate and warm space, we will discuss your feelings, beliefs, behaviors, and challenging and influential memories. We'll identify aspects of your life that you would like to alter, work toward gaining a better understanding of yourself and others, and set personal goals to achieve the desired change. We may see each other for as few as five or six sessions or perhaps longer depending on your unique needs and personal goals for therapy. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f2af28e914d6a1c9f401002/1597931845910-D7R2M9N52SS706MAAEAN/pexels-andrea-piacquadio-3756619.jpg https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f2af28e914d6a1c9f401002/1601313862315-8CFUNOR0LCSRHQ9O5FLR/KXX_7733-2.jpg Marriage & Family Therapy - Blended Families & Stepparenting It takes a lot more time than people think — as many as five to 10 years — for stepfamilies to bond and build trust. The challenges are many: How can children suddenly become siblings just because their parents fall in love? How do they share the attention from their own parent with comparative strangers? How do you parent children that aren't your own? No one enters stepfamily life unencumbered. Emotions like love and loyalty and guilt and fear have the power to tear a marriage and stepfamily apart. As a wife, mother, and stepmother, I have an understanding of the unique challenges that couples and blended families face. I provide practical help to deal with the differing attachments of children to their biological parents and stepparents. I assist stepparents as they cope with feeling excluded from the powerful biological parent‑child bond. I guide parents torn between their spouse's needs for intimacy and privacy and their children's needs for support and attention. 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With counseling, you can come to understand what happened between you and your partner and begin the recovery and healing process. There are important issues to explore. How do you forgive someone who has hurt you so deeply? Will you ever be able to trust again? 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